Lesson 19: The imperative — commands, instructions, advice

Vocabulary: Instructions, recipes, directions, advice

How to work with this lesson

  1. Read — the rule for imperative fits in 7 minutes
  2. Drill the scale — three forms (tu / nous / vous) for every verb
  3. Always pair — say every affirmative command next to its negative twin

The imperative is just a verb without its subject pronoun. Take the present tense, throw away tu / nous / vous. The hard part isn't the verb form — it's where to put the pronouns. Affirmative: after, with a hyphen. Negative: before, like in any normal sentence.


Part 1: English already does most of this

English imperative drops the subject pronoun: Speak! (not You speak!). Sit down! (not You sit down!). The pronoun is implied and unspoken.

French does exactly the same thing — except it has three different commands depending on who you're talking to.

FormTalking toEnglish equivalentFrench example
tuone person you'd call tu (friend, kid, family)"Speak!"Parle !
voussomeone formal, or several people"Speak!" (polite/plural)Parlez !
nousyourself + others"Let's speak!"Parlons !

The nous form is a free bonus — French has a built-in "let's" baked into the verb. English needs two words (let us); French uses one.

The core rule. Take the present-tense form (tu parles, nous parlons, vous parlez), delete the pronoun. That's it. The verb stays.


Part 2: How to build the imperative

Take the present-tense conjugation, drop the subject pronoun.

Verbtu (present)tu (imperative)nousvous
parler (to speak)tu parlesparle !parlons !parlez !
finir (to finish)tu finisfinis !finissons !finissez !
attendre (to wait)tu attendsattends !attendons !attendez !
faire (to do)tu faisfais !faisons !faites !
prendre (to take)tu prendsprends !prenons !prenez !
venir (to come)tu viensviens !venons !venez !

Notice the punctuation: French puts a space before !Parle !, not Parle!. That's just typography; you won't hear it.


Part 3: The big trap — -ER verbs drop the final -s in the tu form

Here's the one place where imperative spelling differs from present tense. For -ER verbs (and aller, plus ouvrir / offrir which conjugate like -ER), the tu imperative drops the final -s.

PresentImperative (tu)
tu parlesParle ! (no s)
tu mangesMange !
tu écoutesÉcoute !
tu vasVa ! (aller)
tu ouvresOuvre !

But -IR and -RE verbs keep the -s:

| tu finis → Finis ! | tu prends → Prends ! | tu fais → Fais ! | tu attends → Attends ! |

Why does -s drop? Pure aesthetics — French didn't want parles-en with two s sounds running together. Useful side-effect: the missing -s tells you instantly that this is a command, not a statement.

But -s comes back before y and en. When the next word is the pronoun y or en, the -s reappears for liaison: Vas-y ! ("vah-zee" — Go on!), Manges-en ! ("manzh-zahn" — Have some!). Without the -s, you'd get an awkward vowel-vowel collision.


Part 4: Four irregular imperatives

Four verbs have their own imperative forms that don't come from the present tense. Memorize them as a block.

Verbtunousvous
être (to be)soissoyonssoyez
avoir (to have)aieayonsayez
savoir (to know)sachesachonssachez
vouloir (to want)veuillez

Examples:

  • Sois sage ! — Be good! (to a child)
  • Soyez prudent ! — Be careful! (formal)
  • Aie confiance ! — Have faith! / Trust me!
  • Ayez de la patience ! — Be patient! / Have patience!
  • Sache que c'est important. — Know that it's important.
  • Sachez que nous arrivons demain. — Be aware (that) we arrive tomorrow.
  • Veuillez patienter. — Please wait. (very formal — phone holds, official notices)

About veuillez. It only really lives in fixed polite formulas — veuillez patienter, veuillez agréer mes salutations (formal letter sign-off), veuillez vous asseoir. Think of it as French's super-polite "please kindly". You'll hear it; you'll rarely need to invent it.


Part 5: Pronouns in the affirmative imperative

This is the part that trips English speakers up. In a normal French sentence, object pronouns go before the verb (Je te vois). In the affirmative imperative, they flip: they go after the verb, attached with a hyphen.

Normal sentenceAffirmative imperative
Tu me regardes (You're looking at me)Regarde-moi ! (Look at me!)
Tu te lèves (You get up)Lève-toi ! (Get up!)
Tu le prends (You take it)Prends-le ! (Take it!)
Tu lui parles (You talk to him)Parle-lui ! (Talk to him!)
Tu nous appelles (You call us)Appelle-nous ! (Call us!)
Tu y vas (You go there)Vas-y ! (Go on!)
Tu en manges (You eat some)Manges-en ! (Have some!)

Trap #1: me → moi, te → toi. The unstressed forms me and te can't sit at the end of a word — they swap to the stressed forms moi and toi. So: Donne-moi le livre ! — Give me the book! (NOT Donne-me) Assieds-toi ! — Sit down! (NOT Assieds-te) Same logic English already uses — we say give it to me, not give it to I. Stressed position needs the stressed pronoun.

Trap #2: the hyphen is mandatory. Parle-moi, not parle moi. It's a single phonetic unit.

Trap #3: -s reappears before y / en. Va + y = Vas-y !; Mange + en = Manges-en ! Liaison reason: "vah-zee", "manzh-zahn".


Part 6: Pronouns in the negative imperative

Negation makes everything revert to normal. The pronoun goes back in front of the verb, just like in any non-imperative sentence:

  • Pronoun before the verb
  • me and te go back to their normal unstressed forms
  • ne … pas wraps the whole thing
AffirmativeNegative
Regarde-moi !Ne me regarde pas !
Lève-toi !Ne te lève pas !
Prends-le !Ne le prends pas !
Parle-lui !Ne lui parle pas !
Vas-y !N'y va pas !
Manges-en !N'en mange pas ! (no -s — there's no liaison anymore)

Always learn them as a pair. Drill the affirmative and negative together; the brain glues them as one unit: Dis-le-moi !Ne me le dis pas ! (Tell it to me! / Don't tell it to me!) Donne-lui-en !Ne lui en donne pas ! (Give him some! / Don't give him any!)


Part 7: Order when you have two pronouns

Affirmative (after the verb)

Order: verb — direct object — indirect object — y/en, all connected with hyphens.

PatternExample
verb + le/la/les + moi/toi/lui/nous/vous/leurDonne-le-moi ! (Give it to me!)
verb + m'/t'/lui/nous/vous/leur + enDonne-lui-en ! (Give him some!)
verb + le/la/les + yMets-les-y ! (Put them there!)

Negative (in front, like a normal sentence)

Use the standard order from Lesson 18: me/te/se/nous/vous → le/la/les → lui/leur → y → en, all before the verb.

  • Ne me le donne pas ! — Don't give it to me!
  • Ne lui en parle pas ! — Don't talk to him about it!
  • Ne les y mets pas ! — Don't put them there!

The negative imperative is just a refresher of Lesson 18 — same pronoun order, same logic. The only thing that changes vs Lesson 18 is that there's no subject pronoun.


Next up: Lesson 20 — depuis / il y a / pendant / dans, plus être en train de + infinitive. You'll learn how to say precisely how long, when exactly, and what's happening right now — the time-and-duration system English handles with for / ago / during / in.

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